Male London Socials
Do you find NM events too sexual? We are the alternative. We are a community of friendly naturists (identifying as he/him or AMAB) who meet every month for a purely social gathering with pot luck food. If you are nervous as you are starting out or have to be careful because of work, then message us. The e mail is in Rules section under 'About' tab.
- created by chrisbarbary
Helping new or 'still in the closet' nudists
Return to DiscussionsWe are wondering if we should do more to help those finding us, yet
don't have the courage to start attending our events.
Looking back to my (Chris's) early experiences, both 'Eureka'
moments (nude beach and later nude social) were triggered by others
saying 'come on', not a 'let's do it!' move by me. I thought it
vaguely silly going somewhere and taking all my clothes off and
standing around chatting .... until I did it. I needed a push
or a bit of help, then I realised how liberating it is. I now live
naked whenever I can.
I have been reading profiles here and on other sites and so many
seem to need a bit of help getting started; making that first
event. " ... at present a home nudist but want to. .....
etc."
If YOU have found us and are living with that dilemma, then please
reply to this post or better still e mail the organisers at
malelondonsocials@gmail.com and tell us what you could cope with as
a first nude social experience. A coffee evening, a small supper
party, perhaps? It is understandable that you may be worried about
a party where there may be 40 or so people. If you want to bring a
friend or chaperone then that is fine. If anyone saw 'Five Guys Chiiling' we can assure you it is not like that! We do the chilling but there is a no sex and no drugs rule. Guys chilling naked is a delight and we feel we are meeting a niche group's needs but we do it without the 'extras'.
We have helped a few shy people by getting them to the party early
so people came in and be introduced to avoid being daunted by
entering an established party. It has worked well and they are now
comfortable with the events.
HELP US HELP YOU GET GOING by telling us how we could help you
start out, if you are one of the group of members that have found
the group but not yet been to a party. Usually the biggest worry is
about getting an erection. Whilst exhibitionism and flaunting is
not good etiquette, coping with a natural reaction is not an issue.
Again a smaller practice run might get you over the novelty of the
first experience. There is more about this on another page.
Chris