Does spouse know or do you do on side?
Return to DiscussionsIt kind of depends on the mood she's in. Most of the time, however, she's OK with me being nude around her, she just doesn't want to do it herself. Since we work different hours, I am home alone during the mornings and am always nude before going to work. On weekends, when we are both at home, I am nude most of the time but not the entire weekend. I have always slept nude and she also did when we first married, but she soon stopped doing that after the kids came along.
My wife thinks that nudists are all perverts.....we here all know this is not the case, i've tried for years to talk her into trying the lifestyle and she simply won't be in it !!
It has left me to try it on my own and without her knowledge and i simply love it.....what a shame she won't!!!!!!
I don't know if any others are making progress with their spouses, but I hope so! I makes a couple of positive "steps" forward withmy grear ladyand then one backward! Other days, I just seem to advance backwards........! I don't really insist or push her into it, I just keep reminding her that when she gets ready to do social nudity, I will join her.......quickly!
She still cooperates with the home nudity some with me and has grown to accept my "skin" showing all the time when we do not have company! The day we were married, she had to accept that I sleep nude...and constantly encourage her to do so.
Although she has asked me why I have links to nudist resorts she does not really know that I enjoy this lifestyle. She will never join me as she is totally against it and has said so many times over. I just have to say it's her loss and my gain. She is with the textile mind that nudist relates only to sex and sexual perversions and has no understanding nor willing to understand the lifestyle. At this stage in life I'm not going to try to change anyones mind. I'll be naked when and where I can without her company.
My wife won't even dance with me in public because she doesn't like anyone looking at her. She knows that I sleep nude and I walk around in the mornings nude. She doesn't know the dares I do or the nude sites socialize in. It helps that she is scared of the basement where the computer is, and spiders that are in the basement. I have told her that if something would ever happen to her, (death), I would have someone watch the children for a couple of week and I would find a nudist rosort to go to and get my mind striaght. So, since I don't want anything bad to happen to my wife, and I still would like to socalize with nudists and learn about the lifestyle. I do this and only have but one or two sites to try. If I like the site I stay. if I don't on go find another one. I think there are many advantages to being a nudist. For people going into career fields of acting, modeling, medical, fashion, photography, art, engineering, & travel. To be open to nudity would only help. This is only a short list of careers that I thought about. But, back to the topic. My wife is too much of a prood to even try nudity. So I do it when I find small and large moments when she is sleeping or gone.