Does spouse know or do you do on side?
Return to DiscussionsMy wife knows I like to be nude but don't do it much around her because it makes her uncomfortable. However, she knows I like to be nude socially and supports me going to a local nudist club. I am doubtful she will ever join me but of late she has softened a bit about it so who knows.
I am the only nudist and have been for years. Have slept nude since 11. Had to curtail it when the kids started bringing friends home, but now they are grown and own their own. The only comment my wife has really said was, "Aren't you cold? To which I replied, "No, and it ain't anything you haven't seen before." Always nude at home unless company coming over. If it is a male neighbor and the wife is gone, I don't slip on shorts. It is hard to be outside nude where I live, although I do have one semi hidden spot I sit in at night and sometimes during the day.
When my wife and I were married we lived on a large creek and had only 3 or 4 neighbors down the road andfor the first two summers we had no children so we skinny dipped almost every day after work, too many boaters on the weekend. Later we moved off the creek to where we are now and with kids we refrained from being nude around the house, alhough I always slept nude. After the kids grew up and moved away that gave me the freedom to stay nude most of the time although we never went to a resort or a nude beach. Back then we didn't know any nudists or where there was any, it never crossed our minds. After we got a computer we got into chat rooms and had our turns on it, I discovered "couples" chat room and became friends with a few people. She saw me having fun "entertainment" so she became interested and we were invited to meet a couple around our age we had chatted with. She and the other lady hit it off so next time we decided to get a room with a jacuzzi. On the way she said she would make no promises but "we'll see". After dinner we went to the room and had a couple of drinks and a few laughs then time to show or go. She had no problem undressing after the other couple did and we all were in the jacuzzi nude. On the way home she said she really had a nice time. The next year we had the same experience with another couple. The male half was on medication and he fell asleep across the bed so it was me and two women, all three nude and it was pleasurable. Most men would think that would be every man's dream but I was left out of the conversation. Mind you this wasn't a sexual meet, just social. I still socialize with this couple nude, have been for several years now but my wife has completely lost interest although we see them on a social basis. My wife knows the three of us have our nude times when I vist them but knows it's the nudity, nothing sexual. Just this year she has given her consent for me to visit a nude beach and a close by resort when the oportunity comes . I've met a few guys with simuliar situations off this site and socialized nude with them and my friend and his wife. My wife knows so there is no guilt. I have a day every other week and she has hers to have her space. We're both retired now and have my mother to give constant care so we do need that special day for stress relief. maybe one day she may decide to join me, lord knows I've tried, lol. My advice to anyone would be honest, don't hide anything and maybe they will come around.