To post or not to post ... that is the question.
Return to DiscussionsI have been on TN for many years, actually a few longer than my listed number but that's not the real question here. The real question is do you really need to have a discussion group about member's equipment 'down there'? I mean, really, we all came with whatever our DNA coded us to have and that's about it. I won't go into any further details as it would be of 'Zero" use. I did think it over for some time before adding my profile to the group and did so as an acknowledgement of my size and that it was just that ... my size. The idea of average is just throwing everyone in a big bowl and equally dispersing the total amongst all ... and that's not how it works. We all come with our own set of 'accessories' and that is what makes us a unique individual; it's just part of the deal. No need in fussing or whatever, it is just us. As an adder, I will note that an abdominal area operation did appear to affect my member along with multiple lower back injuries and we might as well add in age. Yep, it did get a little shorter. In the end, we do what we can with what we have. So, as an acknowledgement, I am a little smaller than average down there but everything has returned to reasonable working order. And ... I am forever more grateful!! May everyone else be in the exact same boat.
Personally I find the group helpful. As the above poster puts it I have been blessed though DNA a smaller appendage, this has resulted in some insecurity in my life triggered by a doctor doing a medical examination of me for my first job some 50 years ago when he stated it should be bigger than that by now For many years I would ensure no one saw me in changing rooms and even when I visited my first nude beach I ensured I had a towel with me at all times to ensure no one saw me. Its only through groups like this that I have found the courage to show myself publicly safe in the knowledge that I am not alone.
