Acceptance of my smaller than average penis
Return to DiscussionsBecause I am a tall guy people always seem to think I have a huge penis when in fact it is quite small. Some years ago when I was 16 and starting work I had to go for a medical which was quite intrusive and I remember the old doctor saying hmmph it should be bigger than this by now - that comment has always stuck with me making me self conscious about the size of my penis and the fear of dating. Since then I have married and when trying for children medical tests showed I had kleinfelters syndrome, so at last I had a possible reason for my small penis and now I have come to accept who I am and this forum is great for continued reassurance that there is nothing to be ashamed of and that people positively like us small guys.
I know what you mean, being tall with a small penis is difficult. Also being a premature ejaculator doesn't help. Over the years I have perfected my oral skills, I believe in an attempt to prove that I am a good lover. At the risk of sounding boastful, I have had complements from ladies. So we find ways of compensating. I am comfortable on our local nude beach so can't be all bad, lol.
oh yes...us little guys need to develop good oral skills. women have said the advantage to smaller guys is they try harder. big guys, especially real big buys, just think they have to show up. i'm 6 foot, but am on the bigger size in terms of athletic frame and strength. having a boy's penis on a bigger body makes for an interesting contrast. it's not what people expect...men or women. once they get past the surprise (shock), some rather like the look...not that they envy it though.
As one female friend once said to me (with angling or fishing metaphor):
"It's not the size of your pole that matters, it's how you wiggle your worm!"
Like many I know, I am a grow-er not a show-er and am pleased to have never had any complaints.
my brother and son are both 6 foot 6 inches and very well hung. so yes, the expectation is that a taller man would have a larger penis. must look interesting to be small while tall. same goes for a strong muscular man...you expect a certain masculinity with all those muscles. so seeing a small boy's penis is a shock. but not necessarily unpleasant. ;-)
being small is a state of mine that affects us all I can suspect even someone who has a 6-7 inch penis has issues and just my opinion from being a nudist at the pool on a sunny day a guy with a really larger penis even when flaccid on his first visit to a nudist camp is really going to feel way more uncomfortable than a guy with a small penis I guarantee it.