Off topic but relatable. Starting off with a small group or large one for the first time?
Return to DiscussionsSince a lot of guys here are not social nudist yet, the question always pops up on how to start. I've seen some recommendations for getting nude in a smaller, more intimate setting. But that is just it, you are already shy about your manhood size and in a confined group, everyone will be noticing (actually, more traditional nudist won't care but that is the fear running through the nubies mind). If these are close friends, you could open up you fears and your friends can shoot them down. The flip side is with a large group, you can be one person in a crowd and see how there is variety and even people in the same boat as you. You could find others to bond with and form a Below Average Brotherhood. For me, it was a larger group. I am hoping that advice given here can help others drop their drawers and fears.
You are right, most of us don't participate in social nudity. Lots of us go to the beach and get nude on the beach without talking to other nudist. We do observe others. I seldom see showers which keeps me comfortable with myself.
i do think a lot of guys have a hang up on penis size , i've been involved in organized nudism since the 80's and really most guys at nudist camps - resorts are average to small in size . i was a member of one camp that i only remember the owner being the only one with a big penis and balls folks joked they hung to his knees . when i suggest comfort zones for those first timers if there is a nude beach close go there first and you can undress at your comfort level,at a nudist camp - resort the main attraction is the pool and when you walk into the pool area especially a new person ALL eyes are on you or at least most yes it's just common curiosity .