Overcoming below average
Return to DiscussionsI always had a complex about my size, I was married for a long time so only one woman saw it. When I was divorced and ready to date I always feared to be ridiculed by a woman . I started to research and found that all men certainly are not equal, some very small, in between, very big etc. I am now happy with what I have and am proud to show it off
I too used to have real complex about my size. My husband though was happy with it from day 1 and says if I had anything much bigger he would not have enjoyed sex as much. Also being a naturist helped a lot as I have seen guys smaller than me as well as larger. Still doesn't stop me fantasising about having a big cock and large swinging balls but I now don't get hung up on it and accept we are what we are.
I was always very insecure about my size. Being smaller actually prevented me from participating in many things and also kept me from socializing nude for a long time. Since then have become very comfortable with my size, and enjoy being nude and am not bothered by anyone seeing me anymore. And while I may get some lingering looks around that area in public I have not really received any negative comments about my penis
When I was younger I was insecure of being seen nude do to my size. Now I over came it and even after swimming and it looking like a scared turtle lol it don't bother me I am who I am if others are offended its their problem. So I see it as being a nudist and excepting what one looks like is also being mature about it.
I have always been a bit undersized, but I have never been ashamed. Indeed, to this day, I am happy and proud to show it off (along with my fantastic butt) whenever possible, which, especially since I have been retired, and not subject to corporate morality standards, has been quite often. And, while my recent descent into total ED has caused a lot of missing the old days, I also know that is natural, to be expected, and I do not let it bother me either. Not everyone is hung like a horse, indeed, most are not, or even close, and there are plenty of other very effective ways to please a woman. Most of the women I know have no problem with it, and some even prefer small (perhaps not so much "non existent". ;-) ) . Be proud of what you do have, accentuate the positive, and show it off as much as you can!
Perhaps this isnt allowed to be said... however Im a bi, mostly gay top, Im above average and Im ashamed how much I prefer a partner to have a smaller cock. The smaller the better. My preference makes me feel guilty for some reason. Perhaps it just strokes my ego. I ended a recent relationship, and the fact that he was hung made it easier to part ways.
DomDad, please take it easy on yourself about your sexual preferences. I'm hugely attracted to gingers, it's just how my brain is wired. Spotting one stops me in my tracks. No big deal.
Since this is TN and not TS, I'll keep it PG-13, but I've enjoyed time with several men with micropenises and that was part of their appeal to me. I'm a fan of all of 'em, but fun-sized is always a treat.
You mentioned ending a relationship was easier because the guy was hung. Who hasn't ended a relationship if part of the equation was being sexually incompatible? It doesn't sound like that was the only reason to move on.
Be kind to yourself. If part of a person's appeal is a small endowment, go with that. You do you. As my therapist says, don't yuck someone else's yum.
Stay Naked! (please stay naked, putting clothes on you would be crime LOL) -Scott
nuttin to be ashamed of...we all have preferences. its great when in a relationship you can check all the boxes on your "preference list", but even in that list there are "must haves" and "nice to haves". sometimes you dont even know those priorities when you're with the person. anyway, glad "small penis" is on your list of must haves.
