Is my neighbor a nudist, too?
Return to DiscussionsWhat is the best way to approach someone to ask if they are a nudist? I have a next door neighbor who has a window facing our house from which I have seen him several times in the early morning (I have to leave at 5am for work) without a shirt, but this seems to be a kitchen window over a sink so I can't see anything else. In fact, the only time I have seen this gentleman dressed is one day when he helped me push my broken down Jeep into our driveway. I suspect he may be a nudist, and if so, I'd like to let him know we are as well and would like to invite him over for a barbecue or something, but given the circumstances, I can't think of a non-creepy way to ask. "Hey, I've seen you at five in the morning several times through your kitchen window. Are you a nudist?" just doesn't sound like a good idea. I don't want to come across as a creep. Also, I don't want to outright say something like "Hey, we're going to be grilling burgers, you want to have some? By the way, we're nudists." because we live in a trailer park without fences. It's a well-kept park, but I fear that the nature of the openness of the park could lead to concern on his part if he, in fact doesn't approve of nudity. Our back yard is still pretty secluded, but if he were to complain to management, we're being nude on THEIR land, and that could get us evicted and even tangled up with the law.
How do approach this delicately and without sounding like a total creep?
I agree with you, but our blinds are usually closed in the day time to help keep out and save on a/c cost. At evening or night the front door is usually open and a full view glass storm door, I am also the only nudist in the house, and I am usually visible if I walk from the bedroom to the kitchen for just a moment, my wife complains that the neighbors might see me and I just told her that if they complain that I would ask them why they were looking inside my house.
Well I am naked in the house but some times I am outside in my boxers, no body but my wife complains, but I do it any way, I had one neighbor that complained to me about it and I just told him to call the cops and we would see what happens, I am covered front and back with nothing exposed so I figure I am legal as far as it goes, What do you think?
fryguy67 I am in the same situation but would not dare go outside naked except at night, I know they would call the cope in a heart beat, just wish I had known before I moved here.
Yeah. We always go into the hot tub naked at night, and I sometimes venture out on the deck naked, but am very careful when I do.
I have seen my neighbor swimming and sunbathing nude but she is not very friendly so I would be very cautious about saying anything to her. I am sure they have seen me nude in my back yard in the past, but have never said anything.
Doing the confusion, my robe slide open and I'dlooked up to see her kneeling looking at my penis inside of theburnt area. I'd apologized and told her how I was. She said she wasintriguedabout that life. A week later, she came knocking onmy door to talk. I didn't have nothing to put on and she said itwas ok and she prefer me to be nude.But one time she'd called and was coming over to watch amovie. I'd opened the door and she was nude.Then she stared coming over nude to hang out. She said shewas nervous trying to be nude and I'd made her comfortable. Lateron, she'd invited me over to her house. I knew she had a housemate. But she said I can still come overnude.
It appears that maybe your neighbor is quite an admirer of the male anatomy...lol. I think when the woman is staring, as you mentioned, they might be enjoying the view.
However, it is quite a pleasant revelation that both she and her housemate are nudists, too.