A woman's view
Return to DiscussionsI see so many posts from the guys, mainly about shaving their crotch or if they are hard....which bugs the heck out of me, so I thought lets try something different. I would like to hear women post on here. How did they get into nudism? What is it that they like about nudism? What would they say to a textile woman about nudism? I'm curious to hear this fresh new topic from women.
First of all men keep bringing up the same subjects so they can everyone focus on their manhood. In one thread a guy managed to ease into telling us that he had 9 inches. Please stop making excuses. Its just another way to show off in writing. If it was truly anxiety then the wording would be much different.As everyone has said many times nudism is sooo relaxing. I work at home and stay much cooler in the summer months. I can go out back to our patio, work and be able to focus much more when I'm comfortable. A white fluffy robe is all I need to answer the door for the mail carrier or pizza delivery. Sleeping is much nicer. Hubby and I can feel the warmth of each other while we're sleeping. It keeps us nice and cozy and closer in our marriage. Hubby and I have a few nudist items around that give people clues like the AARN publication and sometimes one of us will wear a nudist t-shirt. My neighbor across the street hesitantly asked me about it once and I told her in matter of fact kind of way. I told her its not about being sexual. Just a nice way to do everything things in a more casual, relaxed manner. She liked the idea and not only is a home nudist when possible, but comes over for naked coffee a few mornings a week. She still works outside the home. She will put on her robe and bring her clothes over so she can get over early enough, dress at our place and then head out for the day. Her husband gets too busy, so he has limited time and doesn't participate, but encourages her and loves the fact that she is enjoying it so much.I have told a few women here and there, but I am careful. Many people are sensitive about subjects like nudism. If I make a joke and they seem receptive then I might move forward with a discussion.
Unfortunately, you are right. Nudism, maybe more so than other social groups, does attract people for all sorts of *different* reasons. There are many men on here that are here for the wrong ones. However, there are many why are here for the right reasons.
I'm still a relative newby compared to many on here, and when I first joined I had the same insecurities as many others, and I too asked similar questions about embarrassment and lack of control. I had only ever been naked with women in a sexual situation, and certainly didn't want the same results on a nudist beach.
I think that part of the problem is that we have a high turn-over of members, with lots of newby's all the time. This is probably why the same questions get asked.
I envy you. I've been hinting to my employers that I could work from home, and would be more productive as I would save a 2 hour commute. On the odd day I have worked from home it has been a clothes free day, and I've thoroughly enjoyed it.
(I must admit that I find it funny to think of the reaction from my very prudish work colleagues if they knew they were talking to a naked person. One female workmate was shocked to find out I took my shirt off on the beach)
It's great that you were able to encourage your neighbour. I would just be happy if ours accepted us. That seems very unlikely as they've now completely stopped talking to us. At least they're not complaining. A new summer house on the remaining gap should make life easier
f I make a joke and they seem receptive then I might move forward with a discussion.
I've used that technique too. Seems a fairly safe one.
Another one I use is talking about enjoying my garden, reading and listening to the waterfall, them moving onto enjoying feeling the sun and the breeze. You can get a good feel for how the conversation is going long before you mention tan lines LOL
Yes, to your question....it is Fraternity Snoqualmie which has changed it's name to Tiger Mountain Nudist Club. Great place and great people. Young old, male female, all feel at ease having conversations and all on a equal level. So....back to the post. Women, what do you like about nudism and if you were talking with a curious textile female, what would you say to her about nudism?