Nudist interruptis
Return to DiscussionsI don't get all the nude time I would like because of work etc. And now with it finally warming up here in the Midwest it finally feels good to go bare. My problem is, I have a 24 yr son that thinks mom and dad's house is open anytime he needs to flop after a night out and it's usually the weekend when I would have the most time to be naked. I am so close to telling him if you don't want to see us naked you could if you continue to stay here but then I chicken out. Any others here have a similar problem?
He's 24 years old. I'm assuming he's moved out, has his own placeand this flopping in is occasional?
Told him a few weeks ago that he was welcome to visit but no more staying after his nights out. Stopped for a bit then this morning I got out of bed to use the bathroom and was nude and as I passed his room the door was open and he was there. And yes he lives and hour away where he goes to school and a couple of his friends still live in the area. I will have to get up the courage lol
That's good advice AndyDi. I have two sons in their late twenties
who live on their own. Since they moved out I have been nude pretty
much all the time around the house. I haven't built the courage to
tell them yet. It doesn't help that my wife does not live nude,
although she appreciates me naked, likes it and even encourages me.
Without her living this lifestyle as well it would make me the only
one nude. Still, I may try. My biggest problem now is that they
drop in sometimes unexpectedly. I always have to be prepared to
throw on clothes. I've told them they should text or call before
they come, and that usually happens now, but it still happens
occasionally. It's been made worse lately because one son, who
lives 20 miles away, just started a job one mile away. Maybe all of
this is a reason to just go ahead and tell them.
That may be the case for many empty nesters. We've made it clear to
call ahead or to at least knock first to give us time for answering the door. Have sometimes added ''just in case we're not dressed''
(which could simply mean coming out of the shower). Though grown
children are always welcome at home, we nonetheless live in
separate households, have different lifestyles and schedules, so no
reason for advance notice is really necessary.
In many relationships between parents and their children ... it's not as simple as ... "it's your house, do what you want, This is the way we live ... deal with it, If you don't like what you see, don't come over or don't just drop in ..." Many parents want a good, open and honest relationship with their kids. How many of you that spout this kind of stuff liked it when your parents said ... "because, I said so..." You can still be stern, direct, open, honest and give them the respect you expect in return.
Telling them ... "that's just the way it is, " is not the answer. Want the respect you deserve as an adult, to live as you please ... treat your adult children with the same respect. You'll be surprised what you'll get in return. ;-)
You can still be stern, direct, open, honest and give them the respect you expect in return.Telling them ... "that's just the way it is, " is not the answer. Want the respect you deserve as an adult, to live as you please ... treat your adult children with the same respect. You'll be surprised what you'll get in return. ;-)
Good advice even for people who aren't your kids.
In many relationships between parents and their children ... it's not as simple as ... "it's your house, do what you want, This is the way we live ... deal with it, If you don't like what you see, don't come over or don't just drop in ..." Many parents want a good, open and honest relationship with their kids. How many of you that spout this kind of stuff liked it when your parents said ... "because, I said so..." You can still be stern, direct, open, honest and give them the respect you expect in return.
Telling them ... "that's just the way it is, " is not the answer. Want the respect you deserve as an adult, to live as you please ... treat your adult children with the same respect. You'll be surprised what you'll get in return. ;-)