Ideas on how to proceed
Return to DiscussionsHi everyone,
Last summer I started swimming nude at night and loved it. Then, I started hanging around my home in the nude and I am nude more at home than dressed at home. A month or so, I decided to visit a nude resort when it's warm enough to hike, swim, etc, but I am nervous. I joined this group to help me proceed as a nudist and have posted a few pictures to help get more comfortable. I am a little overweight, but I am not worried about it. Any ideas on what to do toprepare for a visit to a nude resort? Any ideas how to proceed onbeing nude around others without be nervous or uncomfortable? Lastly, anyone live in the Indianapolis area that would be willing to help me proceed? Any helpful comments would be appreciated.
It sounds like you have sound plans. I find that 10 minutes or so being around other nudists you forget the they and you are nude. You will probably realize that you see the person , not the nude body. There may be some really beautiful people there that might get your attention , but even that passes pretty soon. Just plan to be relaxed and have fun, the nudity enhances your enjoyment ,it doesn't distract from it.
Audiobiker.....give the guy a break. LOL. We were all so nervous our first time at a resort. LOL To prepare.....yup, drop the clothes. Outside if possible but inside will do. If you have friends see if they will come over and try being nude then. Or get on cam here on Main Chat and pretend your at the resort.
I spend most of my days at the large neighboring resort as does my wife. A little advice to you or any other who is going the first time. Removing your clothes once you get there will be the easy part. Best advice I can tell you is to fly under the radar a bit. At a resort you can spot a new male at 100 yards away. How? First thing a lot of them do is never sit still. You find them constantly walking or parading around. In and out of a chair. Another is the gawking. Theyre eyes wander all the time at others seemingly checking out the goodies or to see who is looking at them. Females have a tendency to hide moreso in the shadows being indiscrete. Dont let your being out of clothes change the way jyou would act in a crowd with clothes. Be yourself. Dont crash a conversation with people. If you are in the pool float around take in the conversations and discreetly mingle in with the people. Many of those there have came to the resort many times and formed a bond with others. So it may seem a bit klicky to you but if you act normal they will include you into a conversation. People are curious about others in all societies. If you take a hike or walk, say a quick hi, act normal. If there is activities you see interestin, ask if they need an extra person. Follow this advice and you will find you enjoyed your day moreso than wondering if you are looking or acting awkward.