I've long enjoyed spending my time nude at home but since I don't have my own place have never had a nude housemate, did anyone ever share a place with another nudist? Or better yet convert a housemate nude?
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Jun 14, 2017Many years ago I had a roommate who I would be casually nude around for periods of time. He did not mind. When he moved another guy moved in, since it was my house, I decided that I would be nude all the time. The 2nd guy could not handle it, considering his extremely long list of quirks, my lack of clothes should have been the least of his concerns. He moved after what I call my 'roommate from hell' period
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Jun 14, 2017Several decades ago when I was just out of college my wife and I shared a house with a couple of college friends. We were all casually nude around each other. We no longer share a house with them, but we're still comfortable being nude when they're around.
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Jun 17, 2017Yea.. A tough situation my friend.. I have had it where a house mate came to like getting nude and another that was never comfortable with it... But even with him.. I was easily nude after a shower or even as I used the bathroom at night. And slow to dress in the morning but keeping it casual. That's how the first guy embraced it too. Steve
ReactReply - RRJun 27, 2017
That's a good story. That's why I always think it's worth asking if it's OK to be nude around people. More often than one might expect, it's OK. And if it's not, nothing's really been lost.
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 27, 2017
I'm glad to hear of people receiving positive responses. I've had different, including one who seemed perfectly fine about it to my face, then said how disgusting it was to Mar.
ReactReply - RRJun 27, 2017
I've had the same - either some people just have to be dishonest about it, or maybe they fear a serious conflict if they say no. I don't know how to get around that. If I didn't want an honest response, I wouldn't ask, so getting a "No" response wouldn't cause a problem. I'd just stay dressed around those folks. I think my view of interpersonal relationships is a lot more straightforward than most people's, and that causes confusion some times.
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 28, 2017
For a year, study outside of my city, and when you first get in the school look for someone who needs a roommate. The next week I already had a room and a new companion, when I first showed the apartment, he told me to feel at home, so I take his word seriously. One day in the morning, I woke up and started to order my room, he had left at night and was still asleep in his room, finished ordering and I prepared to make my breakfast, to enjoy it in my room. When I returned to my room I did not realize that the man just got up and went to get me so I found myself naked with breakfast in my hand. First he apologized for having entered my room without asking permission but thought he had left, then tells me, Do you sleep naked? To which I replied that not only that, I liked to walk naked, he told me that there was no problem and that I was free to walk around the house. He was the best roommate I ever had.
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Jun 28, 2017That will be difficult after having enjoyed the freedom.
Will you still be close enough to get to WashawayReactReply - CA
Jun 28, 2017when I was in the Air Force, I shared a house with a captain and a civilian worker from the base (I was a 1st Lieutennant). From the first day on, I was always naked in my room unless it was too cold. I also went down the hallway naked when I went to the bathroom. I quickly found out that the other guys just really didn't care if I was dressed or not, and after I began being naked throughout the house, the Captain started going naked as well. It just seemed practical when it was warm (this was in Ohio, and that house was not airconditioned, but had fans). The civilian eventually began wearing just his undershorts after we had all been there for a couple of months.
We did have an agreement that if any of us were bringing visitors home, they would let the rest know about it so we didn't freak out unsuspecting visitors.
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Jun 28, 2017You guys are so lucky. My son lives with me. He knows all about my nudity and we talk about it often. There are photos of me naked around the house. But he freaks out at me being naked unless there is a reason - sunbathing or entertaining nudist friends. He can't get over the thought that it is sexual. So my naked time is limited to when I'm home alone, when he's at work or the pub.
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Jun 28, 2017[quote]You guys are so lucky. My son lives with me. He knows all about my nudity and we talk about it often. There are photos of me naked around the house. But he freaks out at me being naked unless there is a reason - sunbathing or entertaining nudist friends. He can't get over the thought that it is sexual. So my naked time is limited to when I'm home alone, when he's at work or the pub.[/quote]
That must be doubly frustrating for such a dedicated nude.ReactReply - MEMemberJun 28, 2017
My youngest son is the same. If I am nude in the garden, he will close the curtains!
ReactReply - VA
Jun 29, 2017If I ever moved again, I would love to house share with a fellow nude housemate
ReactReply - MEMemberJun 30, 2017
It has taken me a long time to realize that I don't share my space well. This is just one more instance where I tend to find incompatibility and eventually resentment. I may never save up for a house, but in the mean time I have a home to myself.
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Jul 1, 2017[quote] did anyone ever share a place with another nudist? Or better yet convert a housemate nude?[/quote] We were always casual at home growing up and the choice of dressing or not was our choice. My roommates at college were not always so comfortable with a lack of clothing, so I usually did wear the basics. I was most always braless, but in class I usually had a couple of layers of clothing on to hide any nipple protrusion...lol. On my dorm floor if not in a t-shirt I was mostly simply wearing a bikini bra and short shorts. Men were allowed on the floor, but my lack of clothing did not concern me around them. I did openly change around my roommate and she would see me often bare breasted to the point where she was getting more at ease with basic nudity. She had body concerns which I did not agree with. I thought she looked lovely. She did, however, get to the point where she would change in front of me and even wait a bit before putting on some new clothes. She did notice that I was shaved and after a few questions I explained about shaving and trimming. She loved it and felt she had found a whole, new world. I lost track of her after graduation, so I don't know if she ever followed through on visiting any clubs or not.ReactReply - AL
May 27, 2020I remember when I was 19 I moved in with 2 female friends, I had dated both at one point prior to this and was intimate with one of them prior too... It was a 3 bedroom place and we all had our own rooms, the bathroom was right outside 2 of the rooms and my room was 10 foot from that. I was there about a week, I worked the afternoon shift, I came home they were watching TV and I went upstairs to change. As I was changing out of my work clothes, out of the corner of my eye I noticed a video camera up on the closet shelf. So I turned the big light on, completely stripped and I took my time and walked around so it captured me at all angles, I grabbed a pair of shorts and put them on commando. I went down to watch TV with them. The girl I was intimate with the year before said I'll be right back, she ran upstairs and grabbed the video and watched it. She came back down and the other girl was looking at her and she smirked and shook her head yes... I said what's up? the one who ran upstairs said well we hid a camera in your room to see if we could catch you naked. I said well you did and she said I know that's what I was just watching with a wink. I said well I sleep naked as well and then I said, well if you two wanted to see me naked all you needed to do is ask, I stood up I dropped my shorts and did a slow turn as I walked closer to them.. They were like put your shorts back on and laughing, well after that I started to walk to the bathroom naked and go to the kitchen naked as well. Neither ever said anything and soon after they would go to and from the bathroom nude as well.
I had a male roommate years later, I gave him the master bedroom with it's own bathroom and I took the bedroom in front of the house. Our living room was directly across from the second bathroom that was right next to my room. Not even after a week of moving in, I came out of my room naked of course going to the bathroom. I noticed he was on the couch on the phone, I didn't say a word, went into the bathroom, left the door open took a shower, dried my hair and walked into the kitchen and made a sandwich. He was a little surprised and made a joke about it. I said well I'm nude in my room all the time and seeing you didn't freak seeing me go to the shower I figured I puss it a little. He said well it's only 2 guys here so walk around as you want. I was always nude and it took him about a week and he came out to the kitchen nude one morning. During that week he came out a few more times nude and I finally said now doesn't that feel better lol??? He said you are differently onto something. He wasn't nude near as much as I was, but he was comfortable enough to see me nude all the time and walk around nude at times as well himselfReactReply - MI
Jun 3, 2020[quote]I have yet to convert mine but she is perfectly fine with me being nude. Helps that we've known each other for years and there are no secrets between us[/quote] Same with me.ReactReply
