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does my boner offend you?
Return to DiscussionsI love to be naked. It feels so nice to not be constrained and pinched by clothes. I also love to be naked around other men. I think its the camaraderie and the fact that we all have the same parts, so why hide them. It seems silly if you think about it. However I am a very anxious person. I dont want to offend anyone or rub them the wrong way. Lets be honest, I get a boner at the drop of a hat. Its not necessarily a sexual thing. Im not staring at people or even thinking about sex. There may not even be anyone around but if there is air hitting my junk it just happens. Ive been to a few men-only campgrounds and it always happens. Then I get in my head about what everyone is thinking. Do they think Im just there to get off? Which is definitely not the case. Do I belong here? It also makes me a little stand-offish. While everyone else is talking, laughing, and hugging, Im worried about giving people the wrong idea. Ive even been invited to a few local nude get togethers a but I usually decline because once again I dont want to offend anyone. Anyway I just wanted to get that all off of my chest.
I feel this mentality, is similar to blaming a woman wearing revealing clothes for encouraging men to misbehave. It is irrelevant. Respect of self and respect of others above all else. If I have a boner or no boner, it is not an invitation for someone to have sex, it is a physiological reaction, not a warning sign.
At one of the beaches I go to there is a particular guy who plays with himself to get a boner and then walks along the beach with it waving about. I don't think that is appropriate or a good image for the textiles that walk the beach, this guy is trying to get attention. You see others who do have them sometimes but don't flaunt them, and it's not an issue.
Had one myself at the beach this week, relaxed laying on my back, it was nice, no one was around to be bothered by it. If others were nearby I think I would have stayed as I was without feeling ashamed or guilty, they disappear of their own accord. If you don't try to flaunt them, I don't see an issue, it is natural.
Not at all, I have Male buds that come out every once in a while and if they bone, I pop a beer to celebrate. I mean SOME DAY almost all Males will not have them,..., why let a few dick police or unappreciative females bully Males into buying into teh shame game. As long as it does not bite or say mean things,..., dicks are not always "DICKS"! LOL!!!
Absolutely agree!:)
Beautifully, put, our penises are a beautiful gift and when they are activated or aroused by any number of things its great. There's no need for anything but enjoying the very masculine part of our bodies doing what it does best. I say we celebrate our penises with pride in whatever state they are in
Shaudbear;You get a boner because either the air on your penis, something touching your penis, something you saw, and/or some thought turned you on. That does not make you a pervert but healthy.Your penis is not junk.However, you are not only having sexual thoughts. Just because you have a sexual thought and part of you would like to have sex, that does not mean you really want sex.Our penises are wonderful, they are sexual organs, and we have sexual thoughts and that is how it should be.Why be embarrassed?Soonbnude;I remember going with a friend to Apollo Beach in Florida which was the first clothing optional beach I was ever on and it was about 13 years ago. I remember laying down naked on a beach for the first time. Of course, I had a full on erection.He just looked at me and said, don't sweat it, it means your body works.I looked down and there was a little breeze. My chest, belly, and pubic hair were blowing in the wind and my penis was straight up. I felt so masculine and I really enjoyed it. I was not ashamed but proud of it.We should never be ashamed to have a penis, erect or not. As long as we are not being rude, whether naked or clothed, we are okay.
I avoid going to shared toilets or showers because I'm afraid of having an erection. I am a person who have a boner easy and I am afraid of what they will think or say about me because of having a erection among other men.
I have a friend who shared the shower with me and didn't care if I got hard or not, but I don't know what would happen to other guys who might be bothered by it.
Men get boners. Not sure why people have a hard time understanding thatIt's what you do with it that matters. Nudism is not about sex and a boner can send the wrong signal. Unless you're in a swinging environment you can hide it by sitting or covering it in some way (no, I don't mean hang a towel on it).
SO true!