I'm new to being a nudest, and if you read my profile you have seen my interests and how I hope to grow into nudism. The people I have met online and talked to thus far have been great and I look forward to making more friends. One friend I did talk to about with me being new, and worrying about attraction with someone I may be hanging with, what happens if I get an errection. The friend explained that if it happened how to proceed without drawing attention to the situation. He explained that being new, that sometimes it happens, and how with time it is less likely to happen.

I was happy when I ran across this group and I was accepted. Because it seemed like a genuine group that would help new people like me, and be open and honest, and help me transition. So I present a question of what has been most recently on my mind...

What I have found in my research up to the point of joining TN was that nudist accept all shapes and sizes of people and that nudist do not judge on body type, nationality, ect. That nudism is not a "sexual" thing (example hookups) unless you are at a event that is the object for hookups, or both people are attracted to one another and pursue something beyond just being a part of nudism. However I can't help but think that I know that I am a grower, not a shower. I know as humans we are curious and that we all will sneak peeks at someone we may have an attraction to. I worry that people may judge me on size, not just in regards to attraction, but even possibly as friends. I know a lot of this can be a self confidence thing, and we are our own worst critics. I just thought maybe other guys may have dealt with this, and possibly have some advice they could pass along.

I appreciate being accepted to the group and look forward to making new friends, and having those that I can turn to.

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