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Are you a Pee Shy nudist?
Return to DiscussionsI am in a way. I have no idea why, I wasn't like this when I was younger but now that I'm older I find that when I have to take a piss it takes a moment before it gets going. But I've also discovered that the more I pee around others the less pee shy I'm getting. I think it's all a mind set, you just have to focus and not care about who sees or hears you peeing and just do it.
I think the only 'advice' in this regard is not to worry about it. The more you worry, quite often the worse it becomes. And - you're absolutely not alone. In fact it's an established fact that men take longer to start to pee if there's someone else around. (I'm an extreme case and can't manage at all and unfortunately not worrying about it doesn't help in my case!) As naturists we might have an advantage in that we're used to people seeing our cock,, but it would need a controlled clinical trial to discover whether there is in fact a difference between us and non-naturists in this regard.
It can be that the more we pee in company, the easier it gets (seems logical), as someone else has suggested. So I guess further good advice would be to persevere and see whether this improves over time (and don't worry if it doesn't!).
Of course, if someone has trouble peeing anyway, that's a completely different matter and for any doctor this is routine stuff. But usually, like getting hard or not, it's between the ears and not between the legs. Happy micturition!
By the way, you get an 11/10 for raising this. There's always been something of a taboo about the 'natural functions' and it would be nice if these could be dealt with.
Surprisingly I'm not at all pee shy around nudists. When I'm naked and everyone else is I've no problem peeing in nature--on a bush or on the grass, and I'm fine peeing with a friend. Same goes for being in a "public" bathroom in a nudist club. However, in Textile situations, when I'm standing at a urinal and another guy is at the next one (even if it's a friend) I become acutely unable to pee.
I think being pee shy is a matter of stage fright, thinking it's a performance art even when no one is watching. My advice is to focus on getting the perfect stream instead, ideally dripless. There are fountains that deliver a stream of water that can stop in mid air and stay on its arc without a trail. I want to pee like that! And no drips either! Such eagerness makes me even less self conscious. Of course it might look odd standing 6 feet in front of a urinal, but that's another matter!
Like several others on here, I simply cannot pee when in sight of others. I find it a bit less problematic when everyone is naked, but what I can do is deliberately pee my short red shorts or my speedos while talking to someone. I've only tried this a couple of times so far - the first time, the man I was talking to simply ignored the wetness. On the second occasion I was talking to a different man - he was naked I had my red nylon shorts on - he was clearly turned on by me peeing my shorts but held himself back from commenting. Instead he watched intently as the pee trickled down my legs onto the sand. He stayed with me for quite a while afterwards when he could have made a quick exit. Others on here have expressed support for discussing this 'pee' topic - it's a natural function - we all do it, so why not enjoy doing it. Make it fun. Has anyone else tried peeing their pants? Tell us your story if you have!
If it helps it has a latin name 'paruesis' with another term for a problem defecating.
I have it too, but it depends on how relaxed I am. I used to recite the names of composers in strict alphabetical order to make myself relax, or go into a cubicle, of course.