South African Naturist Federation
The South African Naturist Federation (SANFED), is a voluntary, non-profit association whose primary aims are: to promote the general acceptance and practicing of naturism for the wellbeing of the naturist community in South Africa; to work towards the recognition of naturism as a legitimate lifestyle by all levels of government; to ensure that naturism is presented creditably to all interested...
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Return to DiscussionsHi there,
I've always enjoyed being in the nude, not sure if it is a result of past sexual abuse or not. However I'm now married for 14 years and have two kids 11 and 8. The last few years I've covered up for the sake of my kids. I have a few questions:
1. How do I approach the fact with my wife that I prefer to be naked (not just in the bedroom).2. Is there a PE group?3. Should I go to a clothing optional meeting/resort (like my wife will ever agree) and I get a erection what do I do?
Thanks
Hey there. I was in the same boat but I just started at odd times going nude at home (when the kids weren't there) and eventually just told her one day and she accepted it. Not saying its going to work for you, but worth a try.As for the clothing optional meeting......my wife came with me but wore a sarong thingy.If you do get an erection, then the polite thing is to cover up with your towel until its over.
Hope this helps.
Wayne
Hi there! Why nor introduce your kids from young to the nudist lifestyle/ Yes you should seekn other nudists with same interests. Be open to your wife. You may be surprised at her reaction. ( I did long ago, dreaded it, but she was amazingly understanding as long as I respect her non-naked approach) . i clothe, though commando, in front of her, but I have a mancave in which I'm naked as much as I want to. Erections? Most natural thing among men, though as a nudist it shows of course. My experience is that socially, should one get an erection, it is just naturally accepted. As you have more and more social nudists contact the newbie wears off and erections are less and less. Naked Hugs Peter