Str8, Gay & Bi Bros No Clot
This is a group for people to share there experiences about hanging around with there gay, bisexual and straight bros or friends naked in a non sexual way, and also there experiences with there gay bisexual and straight bros or friends that ended up turning sexual.And to make and meet new like minded people.
- created by Neo2100
Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?
Return to DiscussionsSorry if this is too sexual but the introduction to the group ask about things turning sexual so I'm curious what you think about this.
So I'm curious if you all think that straight and gay nudists that are close friends can just rub one out together if one of them gets horny? I've done it before as a straight guy with a gay nudist friend I used to have and I heard others bring it up, just not here.
In my case I once had a gay nudist friend that was cool. We had fun hanging out doing the usual guy stuff like drinking and playing video games. Eventually once we got comfortable we started watching porn and jerking off together. I mean we're both nudists so it wasn't much of a stretch to do that together.
I also tried to be accommodating because he was gay and let him touch my dick a little or sometimes I'll put my dick in his face to help him get off. Of course he tried to go further in the beginning, but I found where the boundary was that I was comfortable with and we ended up at that.
I was good with it too because many times it sucks having to wait till you're home alone just get yourself off. I even once had a female friend that showed my her tits and let me touch them sometimes because she knew I liked tits. She refused to go any further because she had a boyfriend, but I was at least happy that I got to see and touch them. So I think he should feel the same, right? Shit I wished that I could have at least gone a little further and jerked off their to her tits instead of waiting till I got home.
We also had fun trying to find porn we both liked. It was even nice having someone that admired my dick and wanted to touch it. Because it really gets tiring dealing with women that never give a compliment.
Have you guys done something like this? Have you heard of other guys doing this? Or is it just me? Do you think this is a good compromise between straight and gay guys? Curious to hear what all of you have to say.
P.S. I will delete this after a short while for reasons.
I think this question reveals an unrealistic view of male sexuality in that we are all somewhere in a spectrum from not getting turned on by naked guys to only being turned on by naked guys. Where in that spectrum does straight end and gay or bi begin is a pointless distinction, so if any two or more guys are comfortable being naked and watching porn and jerking off or jerking each other off, there will be someone who will call it perverse and call the guys gay, but also others who will say its cool. All that matters is what you enjoy and what you are willing to risk in your reputation if some non tolerant person in your circles of friends, neighbors, family or coworkers finds out and chooses to out you. I much prefer being touched by either men or women to stroking myself, and I dont care what a guy thinks about his sexuality as long as hes having fun playing with me and me him. If a nudist is uncomfortable with being outed as bi or gay regardless of considering himself straight, my advice is he not be stroking with another naked guy, because it never matters what you are thinking, just what the person reporting it is thinking
If boundaries are discussed and men agree for a little more, oral will be a wonderful connection method, too. Not raunchy but more gentle bonding.I am part of a group where all orientations are represented and meet up weekly or every other week and hang out nude and usually one penis growing and someone to notice is all it takes for all of ours to grow erect as well. To make sure all are comfortable, there is nothing allowed other than wanking yourself or mutual wank which has really bonded most of us in the group. As long as boundaries are discussed and not crossed, it can be a wonderful bonding time between men.
I love your question and this is a great place for this discussion! I'm a lifelong nudist and I have never been able to understand why masturbation and/or sex are treated the way they are by most nudists. Sexuality is as natural and normal as nudity. Thankfully, I have quite a few nudist male friends. We don't define our relationships by trying to label ourselves or the time we spend together. I have straight, gay, bi male nudist buddies that have had an appetite/need/impulse on more than a few occasions. Someone gets an erection...we go where it takes us. We've masturbated together, swapped oral, I've even bottomed many times. It's all in good fun. I've always believed an erect penis and a load of semen are terrible things to waste.
I have always enjoyed masterbating with other guys! Always a lot of fun. I enjoy swapped oral as well and i also enjoy getting bottomed!
i think it's a great way for guys to enjoy their company and bond, and i'd love to be part of such a group (hang out nude, masturbate, mutual masturbation or oral) as long as everyone is comfortable, what's the harm?
I think this is great. I used to be in a Naked Men's group in Glasgow (sadly the group sort of fell away). Wasn't billed as a mutual masturbation meetup. But would often happen. As is normal, the guys would have a little re-arranging of their cock's and ball, a little scratching of the balls from time to time, as the chat or whatever activity (tabletop games or quiz, etc.) carried on. The group was very mixed as to age and body types as well has the usual variety in endowments and whether cut or not, hairy or smooth and I'm sure sexual preferences.
Before long at least one guy would be hard which was never an issue, however it wouldn't be very long before more hardons would be on display. And as we all know if your cock gets hard, it's almost impossible not to have a gentle stroke or two (or more, lol). The move to mutual pleasuring was natural and never forced. Hands would wander and stroke a neighbours cock while he was doing similar. One or two would also exchange blow jobs, me being one.
We all shared good humour and the company was good. One of the guys got the nickname "Long John Silver" as he had an amputated leg and wore a prosthetic, though not while naked - he took the leg off with his clothes. He often joked he could still walk due to his generous endowment, lol.
I have to say these experiences helped me with self-confidence issues and I became more confident being naked around others, Playing five-asides also helped in this as we all had to get naked in the locker room and showers, lol. Though those never involved wanking - totally different set of guys.
We also had a group pre-pandemic, started out as just getting together naked during the lunch hour since at least one still worked. Evolved into mutual masturbation, even some oral. All good fun. But whatever members were comfortable with.