Str8, Gay & Bi Bros No Clot
This is a group for people to share there experiences about hanging around with there gay, bisexual and straight bros or friends naked in a non sexual way, and also there experiences with there gay bisexual and straight bros or friends that ended up turning sexual.And to make and meet new like minded people.
- created by Neo2100
Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?
Return to DiscussionsSorry if this is too sexual but the introduction to the group ask about things turning sexual so I'm curious what you think about this.
So I'm curious if you all think that straight and gay nudists that are close friends can just rub one out together if one of them gets horny? I've done it before as a straight guy with a gay nudist friend I used to have and I heard others bring it up, just not here.
In my case I once had a gay nudist friend that was cool. We had fun hanging out doing the usual guy stuff like drinking and playing video games. Eventually once we got comfortable we started watching porn and jerking off together. I mean we're both nudists so it wasn't much of a stretch to do that together.
I also tried to be accommodating because he was gay and let him touch my dick a little or sometimes I'll put my dick in his face to help him get off. Of course he tried to go further in the beginning, but I found where the boundary was that I was comfortable with and we ended up at that.
I was good with it too because many times it sucks having to wait till you're home alone just get yourself off. I even once had a female friend that showed my her tits and let me touch them sometimes because she knew I liked tits. She refused to go any further because she had a boyfriend, but I was at least happy that I got to see and touch them. So I think he should feel the same, right? Shit I wished that I could have at least gone a little further and jerked off their to her tits instead of waiting till I got home.
We also had fun trying to find porn we both liked. It was even nice having someone that admired my dick and wanted to touch it. Because it really gets tiring dealing with women that never give a compliment.
Have you guys done something like this? Have you heard of other guys doing this? Or is it just me? Do you think this is a good compromise between straight and gay guys? Curious to hear what all of you have to say.
P.S. I will delete this after a short while for reasons.
Absolute rubbish, gay guys always think they can turn straight guys or that straight guys will jerk off with them, it is nothing more than an urban myth and wishful thinking. Truly straight men DO NOT jerk off with gay guys.
You place limits on yourself, and labels. I grew up in a time when you were gay or. straight, and if you were bi, you were ostracized for not picking sides. I much prefer youth today, who are more open, and less defined by labels. Have you ever noticed that when you have an idea, you may be uncomfortable with it at first, but after a while, you think about it more, and it's like you are opening your mind to the idea, and then one day, it happens and you are not as closed to it as you once were?
Look - we all change. We are human beings at the end of the day. You decide how open you want to be. Since we've moved to a more conservative approach, as example in gym locker rooms with segregated showers, walls, and doors for privacy, less common nudity etc, it has affected how open we are. We are getting away form touch, and intimate moments, that matter. Boners are a normal reaction. I love to give a long naked hug to my mates. They often want to break away quickly. I stay there, holding them, unapologetic about the intimacy and blood flow reaction. You are experiencing a human reaction. It's not a position of shame.
You may decide one day that a mouth is just a mouth, and if it's a guy or gal, it won't really matter, it's how it feels that counts. Life is an experience, and I encourage you to be open with other human beings. You decide how you react, how you limit yourself or how you reach your total potential to live your best life without shame.
Those are my thoughts.
You decide how you react, how you limit yourself or how you reach your total potential to live your best life without shame.
Great wisdom! Thanks for sharing.
NO, guys do not change their basic sexuality EVER and this whole BS of I'll jerk off with guys but I'm not gay is a total and complete insult to gay men. The original poster who said he would place his dick in the gay guy's face to "help him get off". Seriously a closeted man pretending to help his poor gay mate that he feels so sorry for so he is allowing the guy to feel his dick.
This is absolute garbage, the guy being so generous to "help" his friend get off is gay, I don't care if he's been married to a woman for 40 years he is gay and simply unable to accept his sexuality. I know many straight men and they would never jerk off or play around with guys. The bottom line is that straight men do not get naked and play around with other men, if you are doing this you are gay.
As a gay man I find this whole attitude of so called straight men helping out their pathetic gay friends is incredibly insulting and I have seen it many times. Like the guy I met at a club while on his knees repeatedly telling me he was not gay, that his wife was out of town and he needed relief lol talk about totally delusional and so far in the closet it is not funny.
Accept if you are naked and playing around with other men you are NOT straight and nothing in this world will convince me otherwise.
As for my understanding the question... the post is merely asking if jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet? It is a question of simply about meeting. There is nothing there that is asking for people to judge your sexuality or character. But why is it that there are people who reply and judging the person who post this? I am sure the person who made the post knows exactly who he is and what he is and if he chose to stay in the closet, let him be but don't judge him because he chose to stay inside the closet. Why can't we all keep this conversation fun and interesting rather than judging or labelling people. It's just a conversation and this is not a court that you need to judge someone. Spread love, joy and peace rather than hatred and judgement. Let's just have fun with our lives.