Str8, Gay & Bi Bros No Clot

This is a group for people to share there experiences about hanging around with there gay, bisexual and straight bros or friends naked in a non sexual way, and also there experiences with there gay bisexual and straight bros or friends that ended up turning sexual.And to make and meet new like minded people.

Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

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Sorry if this is too sexual but the introduction to the group ask about things turning sexual so I'm curious what you think about this.

So I'm curious if you all think that straight and gay nudists that are close friends can just rub one out together if one of them gets horny? I've done it before as a straight guy with a gay nudist friend I used to have and I heard others bring it up, just not here.

In my case I once had a gay nudist friend that was cool. We had fun hanging out doing the usual guy stuff like drinking and playing video games. Eventually once we got comfortable we started watching porn and jerking off together. I mean we're both nudists so it wasn't much of a stretch to do that together.

I also tried to be accommodating because he was gay and let him touch my dick a little or sometimes I'll put my dick in his face to help him get off. Of course he tried to go further in the beginning, but I found where the boundary was that I was comfortable with and we ended up at that.

I was good with it too because many times it sucks having to wait till you're home alone just get yourself off. I even once had a female friend that showed my her tits and let me touch them sometimes because she knew I liked tits. She refused to go any further because she had a boyfriend, but I was at least happy that I got to see and touch them. So I think he should feel the same, right? Shit I wished that I could have at least gone a little further and jerked off their to her tits instead of waiting till I got home.

We also had fun trying to find porn we both liked. It was even nice having someone that admired my dick and wanted to touch it. Because it really gets tiring dealing with women that never give a compliment.

Have you guys done something like this? Have you heard of other guys doing this? Or is it just me? Do you think this is a good compromise between straight and gay guys? Curious to hear what all of you have to say.

P.S. I will delete this after a short while for reasons.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

FINAL TIME, straight men do not meet up with gay men to get naked and jerk off, no matter what your twisted fantasy is. If guys want to meet up they can go to a sports game, a movie, hiking etc, straight me do NOT want to play with naked gay men, do we have this clear yet or are we still living a delusion?

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

Have fun with our lives, yes, but also with our cocks :)

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

Have fun with our lives, yes, but also with our cocks :)

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

I don't care to label varieties of sexuality. I think most men operate along a continuum of tastes which changes with age. I love women but I'm not not attracted by women of my own age. Younger women tend to go for men their own age or younger. If I want sexual action, which I do, I need to look to men. I'm happy about that. My nipples are a good conversation starter.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

At the right time, at the right place, in the right mood-yep

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

I do something similar I guess. I have an older male friend who has a massive house and garden but lives alone. We regularly meet up for coffee mornings / hang out days, with me fully naked and him fully clothed. It's an unusual arrangement yes, but we are both adults, and we both enjoy it. I enjoy being able to be completely naked the whole time, and have him admire and compliment my naked body a lot, which even as a straight lad is really nice to hear. As I've grown more comfortable, I've let him watch, and then later record me masturbating. We were both surprised at how comfortable we felt, as he has also only been with females,.and is basically straight. I have recently received a massage too, which was absolutely lovely. All over my body, except for my genitals. I don't even think either of us want to do anything else sexually, we just spend the day together as CMNM friends, and both love it. We also went for a walk through the woods near his house in a clothed/naked pair (in the summer). With regards to the masturbation side, as I said I have wanked sitting right next to him, with him watching and us chatting the whole time and really enjoyed it, without ever wanting more. I do enjoy that he seems to enjoy looking, or occasionally touching a little too. He says he just likes to see a naked man so happy and relaxed in his skin. The masturbation seemed to just evolve from this, and I'm happy with the arrangement too.

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As you're both adults and enjoy your get togethers , I can't see you're harming anyone . You're welcome to hang out naked at my place although I'd be naked too . It's great to see a straight man who is so liberated

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As you're both adults and enjoy your get togethers , I can't see you're harming anyone . You're welcome to hang out naked at my place although I'd be naked too . It's great to see a straight man who is so liberated

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

Whats not wonderful about males getting together and celebrating the many wonders of being male together with complete openness regardless of sexuality labels etc?

IMHO Natur-ism should celebrate everything thats natural and good.

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RE:Do you guys think jerking off together is a good middle ground where gay and straight guys can meet?

FINAL TIME, straight men do not meet up with gay men to get naked and jerk off, no matter what your twisted fantasy is. If guys want to meet up they can go to a sports game, a movie, hiking etc, straight me do NOT want to play with naked gay men, do we have this clear yet or are we still living a delusion?

You obviously have no idea how the real world work do you !

The act of men getting together to have/do circle jerks or just two guys together jerking each other off happens far more often than you want it to. Doesn't matter if they are a mix of straight/gay or anything else, IT HAPPENS. So your idea that it's about a twisted fantasy is BS to start with.

Nudist beaches are a prime place for this sort of thing to happen, as long as it's done discreetly. I take it that you just don't like the idea that it does happen in your own mind ?

Men don't just meet up to watch the game or talk pussy fantasies all day, that makes you sound so naive. I take it that you are a typical Australian male that thinks his cock is for sticking into pussy and that is ALL there is ! Wrong on so many levels.

Even if guys do get together to wank off, it has nothing at all to do with either or all of them being gay or bisexual etc, that is a generalisation of what sexuality is and is about. You can be as straight as you want to be, but there are times when some guys need the touch of another man, the feel of their cock/balls, rough hands groping his ass cheeks etc, some even going as far as penetration. Biggest part of the time it's simply about sex, sometimes it's a need that some guys have.

There is a level of primal lust that some guys can only get with another man, this is what makes every single of us us individuals.

I take it that you again will assume that guys that get pegged by their GF's are bisexual ! Again, that is not the case most of the time, some men just love taking a rubber cock up their bums, the orgasm alone from the prostate massage is one of the most amazing feelings any man can have. Point being some STRAIGHT men love getting fucked, it DON'T make them GAY.

Am going to assume you are just so rigid in your thoughts that men don't get together for mutual wanks, regardless of their sexuality. It shows how closed minded you are and that you won't allow yourself to explore the wider world when it comes to sexual pleasures, you don't have to be a raving homo to enjoy a mutual wank with another guy, as long as you are both in tune with own sexualities, but realise there is more than just the obvious and can simply enjoy a sexual encounter just for what it is and not make a five course meal out of the situation !!!

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