Tracy And Dans Nudist Group
group who are friends of Dan and Tracy, if your not a friend then you will NOT be accepted
- created by Tracydan
just a thought, or complant
Return to Discussionswhy do so many people try to fake being nudists?
Was in the chat room, where we know many who we have met in person,
and start getting these PMs with people trying to convince us they
are nudists, we are certified, which is only one step in providing
some assurance to others, but we have tons of pictures not only in
our profile but also in here, anyway it is not like you have to
study to pass a test to be a nudist, LOL its a way of life, so
relaxing, so enjoyable, why do so many have to fake it?
T&D
I can count the number of times I've ventured into a chat room on a nudist site and I won't use all fingers and thumb. Too many people coming and going and you can never seem to get a conversation going without someone cutting in. I equate chats with a small group of people talking about something and then some one new enters the circle, then a few seconds later another, then another and before you know it, the conversation you had with the small group is no longer. It compounds the issue if there's a woman in and group! Then ... the amount of guys wanting in on your conversation. In a face to face situation, you'd not just barge into someone else's conversation but in a chat room ... all bets are off! Then there's the fakes and trolls. All they are here for is to cause trouble and ruin it for those that are truly here for the right reasons. That's why I stay outta chat rooms. ;-)
There are nudists, textile and swinger folks who are good people, but then of course there are those who are not, its life no matter what lifestyle you may select, we are just nudists, never rude to anyone, just a friendly couple who enjoys chatting with about anyone who is also respectful.
I love this site. That there are odd people who also use it is just a fact of life. Meeting people in real life is by far better, though. There is no replacement for talking to people and getting a feel for their true personality.
I am with you. I find this site to be 'entertaining' at times. And sometimes some people can get carried away with being a little too forward. It all seems to come with the territory. If I post pictures of me enjoying myself naked and someone enjoys the photo, that's all fine with me. But comments should be respectful. I'm kind of "1st Amendment" about having the right to free speech on here, after all, I willing put pictures on here of me baring all, but please, to some of you I just say "I'm no prude, but graphically telling me what you have in mind for me come Saturday night, just crosses the line".
I will never turn down an invite to friendship from anyone here. But let's just make it a worthy friendship. ;)
The one's I question are the ones that are not certified or they block the pictures saying "friends only, I never request their being friends or accept them as friends. Nudist I know are open and up front with it, my profile is filled out and my pics are there to see, I have nothing to hide as most real nudists. I do not broadcast that I am a nudist, but if some one should ask I never denie it. Mike
There are many on here who are looking for their jollies. The offenders usually have an incomplete profile with no photos. I never refuse a friend request but I also am quick to delete someone if they prove to not be what they say. I am not on here because I want to see you naked, I want to make friends who share this lifestyle and are free to talk about it. That is something that I cannot do at the church pot luck. Bryant
I agree with you except for one point. While I am very open and accepting of all...my Photos are marked "Friends only" Not because I am not open but because I have a very public Business and all my customers are not necessarily open and accepting. I do not hide the city and state that I am from and it could possibly be bad for business. I do think that for the most part anyone who happens to find my profile here however would not be a problem for my business.