Younger Female Nudist For Older Mal
younger females (18-40) who likes older men over 40
- created by HarleyRider
Guys your opinion on.. Younger Fs being attracted to you?
Return to DiscussionsHey guys. So just wanted to get your idea about something.
What are your impressions now days when a younger female says she prefers older men?
I think recently, there has been a stigma around this. As if she is up to a scheme, and no good would be coming from it. Anyway, that is just from my thoughts considering the guys perspective. So its been difficult to be open about liking older guys. Though I do genuinely prefer older guys for many different reasons. For ex. The maturity, masculinity, down to earth nature, being more structured, knowledgeable. Plus, physically I just think they look much better also. Basically I like men who are real, and mature guys tick this box.
I also find guys my own age/my generation just lacking in something. I am not sure what.
So guys, whats your feelings around this subject? Just curious. I guess, and would love to hear your input x
Really appreciate your honesty, Maya. Its refreshing to see someone speak openly about this without playing games. Maturity, presence, and depth are underratedand it sounds like youve got a clear eye for what matters.
As someone who's married 30 years and counting, this is somewhat arbitrary for me, but I can see it working if you appreciate the maturity and perhaps the man appreciates your youthful spontaneity, for example.
I imagine for any couple in later years is the risk of being too set in one's ways. If that can be overcome, does age matter so much?
Hey guys. So just wanted to get your idea about something.What are your impressions now days when a younger female says she prefers older men?I think recently, there has been a stigma around this. As if she is up to a scheme, and no good would be coming from it. Anyway, that is just from my thoughts considering the guys perspective. So its been difficult to be open about liking older guys. Though I do genuinely prefer older guys for many different reasons. For ex. The maturity, masculinity, down to earth nature, being more structured, knowledgeable. Plus, physically I just think they look much better also. Basically I like men who are real, and mature guys tick this box.I also find guys my own age/my generation just lacking in something. I am not sure what.So guys, whats your feelings around this subject? Just curious. I guess, and would love to hear your input x
While I will assume you are telling the truth, I believe that there are too many women who are attracted to older men primarily for their financial position.
Okay yes theres a lot of things that work well together. But theres also a sad part of this relationship to remember.
Men have a tendency to die at an earlier age than women.
But there is something to think about when you are pursuing this relationship. A smart woman will improve a mans health. Better food, vitamins, correct doctor prescribed medications ! Men dont really think about themselves in a healthy manner. But with the age difference healthy physical activity for both will be better.
I am not saying that it is a bad thing, love is a beautiful thing to share ! And the exploration of life together can be amazing together. So walk down a beach naked together and enjoy the time together
We have a friend that is 41. She says that she likes older men because they appreciate and respect her more than men her age and make her feel more relaxed when she is with them. She tells us that she isn't driven by their money or the cars they drive. It's just a more relaxed connection that she has with older men. She says that it also causes some animosity toward her from other older women that don't know her or understand her feelings.
To us age is just a number and too many people are focused on those numbers. Besides it's their lives and we aren't the ones that should judge what makes others happy.
Also why don't people get all upset about an older lady finding a younger guy.
If it makes you happy enjoy it as long as we can on this rock, our time isn't forever.
As a 44-year-old man, being in a serious relationship with a younger woman can be great, but it can also be challenging if theres a lack of maturity. While the age difference may be noticeable physically, what truly matters is harmony in behavior, understanding, and overall lifestyle.
However, if the relationship isnt meant to be serious, then the age gap isnt really a concern.
We have a friend that is 41. She says that she likes older men because they appreciate and respect her more than men her age and make her feel more relaxed when she is with them. She tells us that she isn't driven by their money or the cars they drive. It's just a more relaxed connection that she has with older men. She says that it also causes some animosity toward her from other older women that don't know her or understand her feelings.To us age is just a number and too many people are focused on those numbers. Besides it's their lives and we aren't the ones that should judge what makes others happy.Also why don't people get all upset about an older lady finding a younger guy.If it makes you happy enjoy it as long as we can on this rock, our time isn't forever.
Well, I will disagree with you with no disrespect when you mentioned that "why don't people get all upset about an older lady finding a younger man". As a man who is in that situation: I am married to an older lady who is 15 years my senior for 20 years now and we face a lot of challenges especially early on in our relationship and still are at this time. When I started reading this post, I was thinking of possibly starting a new post myself because I am on the opposite situation of the original post. But then, I read this comment which I quoted and decided to just reply on it instead. I felt that an older man being in a relationship with a younger woman is more accepted by our society than the other way around although there is this stigma that young women go with an older man because of money which is majority of the people who commented on the original post mentioned about it. I cannot blame the people who thinks that way because we see a lot of those in our society and also in hollywood. A good example would be the famous Anna Nicole Smith who married an 85 yrs old billionaire who is more than half her age. We can go on and on with famous people who married an older men but that is not the point anymore. My point is, no matter the real motives are, that kind of relationship is way accepted in our society. Yes! people will talk about it but sooner than later, it will become a norm.
On the other hand, if the woman is way older than a man, there is also the stigma that the younger man is using the woman for her money which is exactly what my wife's relatives was telling her but the bottom line is...my wife doesn't have money. I mean she works and she has her own income and so do I which is how it is since the beginning of our relationship. A lot of people will comment something like, oh your son is so nice to accompany you and so on LOL. A lot of times, I will tell my wife, the good response is that oh yes, I am also sleeping with my son hahaha kidding aside. My wife is not the only older woman I had relationship with. I have been in relationships with older women in the past and I will say that most of the women I dated in the past are older than me. I have this thing about older women and I am sure it is the same thing or feelings that the younger women have who likes older men as well. There are people like me that prefers older women...period.
For me, it is more of the maturity and to be honest with all of you, it is all about the sex. Women who are older knows exactly what they want in bed. They are more confident and not shy to say what they want you to do with their body. I will blamed the woman that I dated when I was 23 years old for 8 years who is 42 years old at that time. She turned my life upside down and gave me the best sex of life for 8 years. After that relationship ended, I swore that I will no longer date younger women and that is what I did.
In terms of the challenges we faced aside from the mean suspicious looks that we always get when we are in public holding hands and the those comments about me being her son or her being my mom is the fact that women are more insecure about their looks than men. My wife struggled with this for a long time and up to now I must say although, I have assured her that there is nothing wrong with her look and I never said anything to her about her look that will make her feel more insecure. Instead, I always tell her that she is perfect in my eyes and that I love her. But that is the demon that she is facing herself and I cannot help her on that one no matter what I assure her. Don't get me wrong, my wife is beautiful and the last 10 years, she gained a few pounds which is normal as she age especially with women but she is still not considered fat. The other problem too was that, no matter how I tried to look older, my asian genes won't give up and I can easily pass 20 years younger than my real age.
Also, now that she is on the retiring age and I am not, we are facing a new challenges because she is planning to retire this year and I am still 10 years away from retiring and I have a mortgage to pay so I cannot afford to retire with her and be with her all the time when she retires as I will still be working my ass hard to pay our bills. This is one of the challenges that everyone has to consider in getting into a relationship way older than you. But if the older person has a lot of money and that person can provide for both of you comfortably when that person retires, and you, as the younger one, don't need to stay working, then you will not face the challenges I am about to face now when my wife retires.
To sum it up, age is just a number. follow what your hearts desire and what makes you happy. Inspire of all these challenges, I will never change a thing and will still do it again if I be re-born hahaha. Love is love. Love doesn't have an age limitation. Good luck.
You know I had not thought about an older woman during this thread.
But yes, when I was in my early 20s, I dated a woman who is in her 40s. We had an amazing time. Her husband at the time was cheating on her with a close friend. And when I met her, we kind of hit it off right away. And we had the most amazing times together. I always love being able to make her laugh and giggle.
Thank you for this Mayer and for your honesty. This is a subject very close to my heart as I'd met a woman very local to me, like same road. Her fantasy was as she approaching her 40th birthday, she wanted to spend it with a man twice her age. We met and talked about it and decided to go ahead with the plan.
I got us a hotel room for the day and had a marvellous time together. Being half my age there was still many things she wanted to try which delighted me too.
With my wife being a member of a local political party and elections coming up I could not dare to be found out so I ended it with her.