i am a real nudist, i lived at avalon resort in paw paw, wv for 11 months after wife passed. i can talk clothed or nude in public/private/video chat
does not matter to me, i can talk about whatever you want, and whatever you are comfortable with, i have been certified on TRUE NUDIST since JULY 2014, i have posed nude for drawing classes in Cumberland , and was the only one nude among 8 women and 6 men , and interacted with them on breaks [still nude ] so if you ever want to talk contact me
But they are still stored somewhere and a hacker could find them.Im wondering why so many people are afraid of their picture being seen, or shared or put on another site. We are Nudists right? Hundreds if not thousands of people have seen us nude, on beaches or at resorts. And in those venues we have most likely been photographed...So, I guess my question is. Why join a Social Nudist group, if you dont want to be Seen?
For me, it's concern over how it might be used. Yep, lots of people have seen me naked, and I have no problem with it. However, I'm not interested in finding it on a porn site.
One thing that should be done to cut down on the pervs would be to eliminate all the pics in the gallery that are not of certified users of this website. At random, I searched on the user name who posted a gallery pic. 45 pictures came up of all sorts of people in different settings. My guess is none were of the user who did the upload. I also think sexually provocative comments about pics should be deleted. I'm new here and still trying to make up my mind. But definitely, this place is far from 'true nudists.'
pamforfreedom wrote:i did the same, and for the same reason's. only time will tell I guess
Please be patient, Pam. After a while, you'll be able to tell who the real nudists are and who the phonies are. I've found that if they mention having been to actual resorts, and such, and that they belong to clubs or national associations, they're more likely to be the real deal.
From your profile, you seem to have been around nudism for a while, so you know it's not about people being obsessed with penises or breasts or body art. If a person on the site is obviously not serious about nudism, it's easy to block him or her. Just go to their profile page, look for the little hand on the icon bar, click on it, and select what you want to do with that person. (Electrocution, unfortunately, is not one of the options.)
woodsman21 wrote:, look for the little hand on the icon bar, click on it, and select what you want to do with that person. (Electrocution, unfortunately, is not one of the options.)
Like how unfortunately the button is missing to send a 220 volt down the phone line when my car warranty expires for the sixth time in one day.
It just occurred to me that when the title of the thread is "Finding real, respectful nudist to chat and make friends," it may raise expectations that such contacts can be made in the chat room. Since I don't frequent that area, I wouldn't know whether that's a good place for it, although people have reported all sorts of bad experiences about it. So if you go to the chat room and find yourself turned off by the people there, remember that there are a lot of people on this site who confine themselves to other parts of the forum where you can have real dialog, even if it's not in real time.
Freedom wrote:I am so glad that I came across this post. I have this experience as well. It is annoying when perverts message you under the guise of naturism and nudism and then get upset when you set those boundaries. I have felt so uncomfortable to the point that I stopped interacting on this site.
I'm sorry you had these experiences. If there were a better site for actually discussing nudism with like minded people, I'd be on it. The best I can do in the meantime is to try to connect with people like yourself and ignore the others. It's sort of working, so far, because I've been in contact with a few people who seem to be genuine, and I'm glad to have been of some help in getting people clued in to the real value of the site.
Its unfortunate that naturism / nudism online is all-too-often dominated by people who arent real life naturists.As a man, I cringe when I see posts like this because most of the offending members are men who cant get past their unbalanced sexuality to have normal friendship-based interactions with people to whom they could be attracted.All I can say is that many of us who are men stand with you against sexually predatory behaviours. Were not all like that!
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