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I do not believe sir that you have any idea what i have experienced, or what i am talking about. And you for sure have not walked in my shoes to understand what i have experienced, and where i am coming from. i am not looking to interact or hang out with couples. Also i do not feel the need to elaborate on a screen name as i do not know you, and therefore do not feel the need to explain. I do know for a fact im extremely tired of noone listening to what i have to say, and others self proclaimed wisdom and opinions on my experiences, when they have absolutely no clue.
I do not believe sir that you have any idea what i have experienced, or what i am talking about. And you for sure have not walked in my shoes to understand what i have experienced, and where i am coming from. i am not looking to interact or hang out with couples. Also i do not feel the need to elaborate on a screen name as i do not know you, and therefore do not feel the need to explain. I do know for a fact im extremely tired of noone listening to what i have to say, and others self proclaimed wisdom and opinions on my experiences, when they have absolutely no clue.
If I have failed to understand your plight as a solo male by reading your opening post then that is your fault not mine.
If you have failed to find a partner to share your life, then that is no ones problem but your own.
If people dont want to spend time with you. Well you get the picture.
If I was meeting someone for the first time, Id introduce myself by telling them my name, if they were to hand me a measuring tape, Id think they were a fk idiot.
If I have failed to understand your plight as a solo male by reading your opening post then that is your fault not mine.
Quite a few other solo men have commented that they feel unwelcome at nude venues or even banned from some resorts. Some have even commented that they are denied admission to some resorts.
Where I go as a single male I have NEVER had a problem. I have met people from around the world and I love to go. Few times I have gone with a women. I do not drive ,have a service dog. I can just sit pool side or walk around. Everyone is always nice. Only once questioned about my dog. Both are always perfect and in control 100% of the time. I hope to buy into the park some day.
Where I go as a single male I have NEVER had a problem. I have met people from around the world and I love to go. Few times I have gone with a women. I do not drive ,have a service dog. I can just sit pool side or walk around. Everyone is always nice. Only once questioned about my dog. Both are always perfect and in control 100% of the time. I hope to buy into the park some day.
I have been to a handful of landed clubs in the past. Most of the people, including the staff, were always nice and even engaging, but with rare exception, there was a group of the old-timers clique that you could see were not happy. They see the club as their personal enclave and don't want outsiders, especially single males, invading. Some clubs invite this attitude by not enforcing their own rules, not just on newcomers, but the old timers. Most of the time I saw men causing trouble, it wasn't the "single" male, it was the married (and usually unaccompanied) male.
The formal place I frequent the most now (though far too infrequently) has no gender quota (only a daily population quota) and enforces rules of behavior and while the men usually do outnumber the woman, it isn't by a large margin because the rules are enforced and trouble makers get banned.
Just my own observations.
Good for you out west. Probably a different atmosphere out there compared to the Northeastern United states, which is where i live, and my experiences come from. And i do not have a dog to take with me everywhere as an ice breaker with everyone. Because pets/animals are always center of attention to the people that embrace pet ownership out here. SO i can assume that having one in tow everywhere you go more than likely is an instant conversation starter. Amazing how everyone has an opinion polar opposite of my experiences although they all live nowhere near me or frequent where i have gone.
WOW.... your an idiot. Mr world traveler chest pounding better than everyone else... you dont live in Connecticut, or go to local areas here as i have for many years. therefore you cannot know what i experience as again i will say, you have not walked in my shoes or lived life here, see what i see. since you are so high n mighty, and havent spent any time alone, and single, you cannot have an opinion as you have not lived like i have to experience what i have . so keep your opinions to yourself as you have not got a clue. probably never even been on the east coast your entire miserable existence. fucking idiot
To the OP, what is your problem? You escalate and then explode at anyone that points out your issues may be self inflicted. Are you sure it isnt your attitude that is causing others at the area camps to act in whatever way makes you feel uncomfortable? I am on the Membership Committee at Solair and have given tours to multiple single males this last summer. Unless some behavior gets them kicked out and banned, there is no reason single males cant be at Solair and interact with everyone else there and have a good time. I have multiple single male friends who are either members or associates who get along fine with everyone else while at Solair. Yes, it is a little more work when you are a solo male but you can still make friends. About 1/4 of the weekends I go to Solair I am a solo male as well, either for the whole weekend or at least one night before Mrs. J&C joins me or one day after she leaves. I accept that I will probably have a quiet evening or day, and that is as a member who knows pretty much everyone at camp.
Have you contacted any of the non-landed clubs in the area? Naturist New Hampshire has many events that are overwhelmingly attended by single males. We have been to several events with them. The Sunchasers leans more to couples, but there are still single males at their events. Even up in Vermont, you can go to the Ledges and there will be others to interact with on any given day. You dont have to wait for an invitation or an event like WNBR to go do something.
For your information like i stated above, the clubs/campgrounds i have mentioned without name dropping them are very happy to take the entrance fee very happily. But once inside its a different atmosphere towards me in my opinion, and its my experience that matters since im posting, and being judged here it seems. so lets name drop then.... lets start with sun ridge, took the fee, then tried socializing, didnt work, people there very uppity and full of themselves, never went back. only takes 1 time for me, thats the only shot, then i never go back if i do not like treatment towards me. that was over 15 yrs ago, do not care about times changing or whatever excuse it is out there. you had a shot, and blew it, i am out after that. not wasting my time, money, again. Lets talk about Solair.... went on Memorial day many years ago, again, happily took my entrance fee, then a woman in a golf cart gave me the tour, after said tour she brought me back to my car but before parting stated that if kids in hot tub, or sauna, do not go in them, also if i happened to be enjoying those , if kids come and get in while i am occupying them, to get out and leave. Ok... not a pedophile, i have encountered kids at Dyer woods, not new to this lifestyle, i go my way, they go theirs, it pretty clear. also it was made EXTREMELY clear that after 3 visits to Solair, i MUST make a decision if i wish to buy property there and become a lifer.... REALLY???? again, after 1 visit, i didnt even stay all day i left around 2-3pm and have never gone back. Dyer woods seemed to be the place for me for a while, i helped with cleanups in the fall and spring to gain day passes and make friends, which i did for a few years, then it started to feel like noone wanted to socialize unless i was gay, which i am not, or i was bringing my Husqvarna back pack leaf blower and fuel/oil to clear whole lots people had residences on, while others didnt help me, and the others there were clearly there to socialize more than work. the Dyer Woods equipment kept constantly breaking down, and warranted lots of time in repairs to some members. yet others were basically pretending to drag rakes around and not do much more. i have bad rotator cuffs so to blow leaves for 8 hours on a day off for day passes that didnt carry over to the next season just wasnt worth it to me so i stopped going there a few years ago. Vermont is nudist friendly, the ledges, rock river, lake Willoughby, free nudist areas. nude hiking day, again free, WNBR/W again free to do. and out of all the places mentioned i have kept in touch, or tried to with a few i swapped contact info with but it takes 2 to tango. It gets old constantly trying, and noone else is. I have been out on my own since age 15, no help ever from anyone, and into the naturist/ nudist lifestyle since age 20. i am currently 56 and this is life as i know it. i make plans, go places, do things, mostly solo because cannot count on anyone these days it seems to be at a time, day, place, etc. no matter what state i go to, i book nudist friendly Airbnb's, and i go, and i find places i can go and be nude solo in remote locations where i will not run into people that frown on the lifestyle. and if i get spotted then oh well, no harm no foul. I have encountered law enforcement a few times and been warned. nothing more. so tired of all the judges coming forward thinking they know me, when they have no clue, you have not walked in my shoes. you have not had a divorce, a child battling cancer 10 yrs,, tryin to make ends meet, and keep insurance on your kid for treatments/operations, had life savings almost wiped out by a skank ex who ddnt care about anything but herself, and literally have nothing and have to start over not once, but 2 times in my life. have any of you???? i still remain optimistic there are good people out there even tho i have yet to meet them. we all have been through hard times, difficult situations. people need to stop bein so judgy and actually get to know another person before passin judgement. you have no idea what we have lived through, just like everyone with something to say is a total stranger to me as well
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