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Please help, lost boy :(
Return to DiscussionsHello,
Im 25 years old, Asian American homosexual living in Sacramento, California. I identify as a man, I like being a man, and I also enjoy being with another man. Sadly, I dont have any men in my life. My dad and my brothers dont have a relationship with me. My brothers gave up actually, not even bothering to acknowledge my very existence , when we are in the same room.
Not sure but parts of me believe most of my struggles stem in my brain, where I have more feminine thinking styles and the company I want to keep, platonic or otherwise, has more masculine thinking styles.
Why does this post belong in this group forum? I see people my age or within 10 years in either direction, and no part of me had a desire to go out of my way to say hello. I do and will converse with any one! But older gentlemen fulfill more of my needs and check off more boxes than I could list.
How do I find and distinguish between companionship and camaraderie and mentorship and sexual needs with mature men, nudist or not, without fumbling? Im 25 years, I have not much success.
PS please dont say anything along the lines of its simple, just do this..: or something you find the be obvious and come off as belittling because I didnt see it so obviously.
I hope for the best
Jai
Thank you
It sounds to me like you're looking to explore male connections of all kinds without feeling like you're looking for something specific. Just seeing where it leads, but maybe you don't have any close male bonds. Specifically with older men.
I get that. I've often felt the same way in that most of my friendships, male and otherwise have very specific boundaries that don't leave room for deeper connection. Sometimes a new person you meet offers that opportunity more than existing friends.
I've been looking for connections on TN that I can connect with in person that want to share space nude without the expectation of sexual activity. At the same time, I don't want to specifically set that boundary so much as I want friendships based on a connection beyond that.
I can count the number of connections I've been seeking like that on one hand. And mostly with guys I've met in person before I knew them online. It would be nice to have a friend or friends nearby who want to hang naked, watch movies or sports, play games or just chat. In the nude. And if tension needs an outlet, we don't need to shy away from it. We can have fun one way and then another and still hang out without being awkward.
That's the dream, anyhow.