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About phoenix32
I.Who Am I?rnrnI am from south Lebanon from Bint Jbeil born on the 8th of June 1982 the youngest among three my parents are somewhat open minded to strict but easy going most of the time; I have one brother married in Dubai he is like my compass in most things I do in my life so far and best friend and an amazing sister also married she watches my back too and she has two amazing children who are my weakness so far; I studied Microsoft Certified System Engineer from new horizons and a technical major in electricity from Amlieh Technical High School; sadly I never had a girlfriend; I was used by ladies to get back to their old boyfriend or it was one sided love; I used to be in the red cross youth department, and a cub scouts leader so I know how to deal with kids I have attended leadership course and seminars about psychology concerning relationships between human beings comparing the middle eastern societies with other societies and their relation in politics, religion, and money so I developed my basic general way of thinking and style of living in a way that I do not do politics yet I observe and also conflict resolution and avoiding the conflict caused by miss communication with a women and I have few theories about boyfriend and girlfriend issue which I will mention later on in my childhood I have changed lots of schools and lost few years in my life but I kept on moving and never felt down and some girls consider too good to be true living in our time and world cause I am too much of a gentle man very honest and somewhat romantic it up to you to discover and how to discover and how to discover; I would also like to add that the way I act and behave is just how I feel and how am I convinced to others I might be apple shinning.rnI have finished diploma in Professional Information Technology from NDU “Notre Dame University in Beirut†who has an affiliation program with an American institute called New Horizons Computer Learning Center in Lebanon. Currently I am a an IT Support Agent for Data Partners and I am finishing my university degree at AOU “Arab Open Universityâ€; I hope to open my own Info-Technological Services business in the future. I am a very romantic person if a lady, no a special lady exists in my life, to others it might seem to others I am spoiling her but the truth that hurts so much is that I am expressing my true feeling of love; appreciation; honor, gratitude and my gratefulness to GOD at first for sending me such a treasure, to her parents for giving birth to such a treasured, valuable wonder and finally to her for being there for me; and I also sometimes like to try and do something extra ordinary when it is least expected!rnrnII.My Logic of Theories towards Any Relationship with Women:rnrnIf you are in a relationship weather you are a male or a female, honesty is the key to success in anything in life especially relationships; a relationship is a very big expensive responsibility so if you are not ready for a relationship do not waste each other’s time; A relationship is a give and take situation considers it a hair when they pulls you relaxes and when they relaxes you pull; When you want to enter a relationship you should always be ready to handle its ups and downs; and if it is not going to be upgrade in the future to an official proposal it is not worth it; Never forget important events and moments in your life, if you forget write them down; for the male never tell a women they is wrong it might get negative result on you; Always give her the budgeting in your house if you are married. Women are always right; always praise beauty even if they sick; Treat your lady and women as a queen, a treasure and even a present in a way that you are a child and you got a gift and you have expectation each you meet you lady you expect something different something new something that make you happy; Never try to outsmart women; women are smarter than you think; for the women never talk negatively about the males parents it’s like you have insulted him and his ego; It is not about the number of clothes you have in your closet, it is about how frequent you wear them: “having large number of clothes that you never wear meaning these clothes are useless. “Shopping to a certain extent is a waste of time and money if there is no need for it.rnrnIII.My Way of Thinking and I am Pound of It:rnrnThe immortality of the soul and mind exists for the wise and for the people who deserve it; Immortality of the mind and soul is when you are good in heart you soul is pure and you always pay it forward.rnrnAn idol or a mentor is a person(s) that affected or still affecting your life; he the person who pushes you to the edge and motivates yet tells to work with passion and commitment and strive to excellence; they are like specters; they are just like a candle light in dark room; or like water candle or even this extra virtual hand you might need at certain times in your life. A great mentor is a mentor that teaches other from his experience and what he learned from his mentors.rnI have always asked myself how does a mentor really function until one night when I was watching a documentary on discovery channel and the followed by a movie called Little Buddha I found an answer; Buddha was the son of a maharaja he was build a palace and supported with all the things he might need from the outside world but at the age of he wanted to see what was behind the palace walls and when he went out he found the things that were hidden from him inside the palace what he found was death, sickness, poverty, corruption, etc… so he ran away and sat for years under the tree and meditated and observed to the extent that he became one with nature his surroundings; he purified his soul and emptied his mind and took humility as his only character so do mentors teach guide and observe and expect when they need to interfere as I said before they push you to the edge.rnrnHatred is an adjective of hating something bad; and you can only hate character and attitude but not the soul; hatred depends on the environment and mentality of citizens throughout time and their fanaticism effect by the politician and people of religion or the outside world for the reason of money.rnrnFinally, I would like to end my article with a paragraph containing the answer the puzzled humanity and humankind: “what do women really want?â€rnTherefore, what do really women want? Some say women love spending money on shopping; well who does not! Some say women nag just to make a man’s life miserable; honestly, men are naggers too! Some say I want my girl/boy only for me; well you can never have that because of responsibilities, family and personal life, you get jealous its fine; and by the way who does not! Trust and the lack of trust are only separated by and invisible fragile line you either trust or you don’t, you’d better trust your love because your love exchanges trust with you and in the same amount you do. I know till now I have not answered the riddle what do women really want and trust me when I say if a male truly loves his lady and trusts her then he took the first step of achieving what do women want; which is trust and chemistry, chemistry is built upon the communication skills between couples, culture, environment, family and unfortunately politics and religion, communication between couples means that both must be open minded to talk in any topic even sex, they must listen to each other not hear each other, when silence exists the couples should understand that there is nothing to talk about; when this silence is repeated frequently then the couples should make their own topics or play video games no one is ever old for games since there is child in everybody; a women loves also to be treated in a special way treated like a lady or even royalty; women also like to feel that no women exist in the universe and also your universe but her; and she always want to feel that you both are fresh new each day is never like the other and want to feel like a present when give it to a child the way he treats it with unwrapping and opening of the box special when he loves the gift and mainly if it is the one he really wants; never lie to a women it never good for you and yet it might turn against you when they lies to you honesty is the key to success in everything you do even relationships; never put conditions on any women believe me condition will be just like a pain in the ass; always as a man take the initiative and surprise you lady; ladies always love surprises and flowers specially white and red flowers.rnrnThe things I really like in women are: I like the women when they smiles; I enjoy looking at her bare feet, to read their eyes, I love women with good morals and when they respect themselves and others and when they behave like ladies, I love honest loyal women and their support when you are in need and mostly I love their sensitivity. While The things I really hate in women and people is when they lie, speak behind others back, I hate also to see a woman cry no matter what was the cause ,see any my friends who are girls get hurt but other people, I also hate women and people who try to avoid me for no reason, Too late on a meeting or appointment, Manipulating with other’s feelings, Using me as a friend for a cause: “money, a bridge between two persons, university projects, university notes, knowledge to get back to previous relationships.â€rnrn
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- Gender
- Man
- Orientation
- Straight
- Height
- 6' 0"
- Weight
- Hometown
- Beirut
- Education
- Some College
- Religion
- Muslim
- Income Level
- <10k
- Occupation
- IT support
- Kids
- None yet
- Smokes
- Drinks
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- Gender
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- Hometown
- Education
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- Kids
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Here for
- Dating
- Relationship
- Platonic Friends
- Networking
- Casual Acquaintances
Who I'd like to meet
She must have a good personality; good at heart and soul; honest; trust worthy; romantic; generous; creative; simple; down to earth; open minded; like to try new things and strange things too; caring; care about my opinion because I know I will be the same with her.rn
My Interests
Movies
Music
Classical
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